The heart wants what the heart desires??? And if the heart lusts for the ease of unhappiness, what can be done? A woman with a habit of self-sabotage must learn that taking the good with the bad means taking the bad with the good. Rose colored glasses are worthless to those that blindly choose neither. Yuko is no guide dog, so stepping into traffic could get the pity-partier killed. There is always a price to pay for ignoring the silver lining...